Certain of the Kagan supporters have been favorable on the ground that she is supposedly going to be in favor of gay marriage.
It is hard to see what effect her appointment could reasonably have on the issue because the only way for it to become a constitutional right is by an amendment. If every perceived injustice becomes a constitutional affront then every issue becomes a constitutional issue, to be decided on purely subjective views as to unfairness. A decision making gay marriage a constitutional right would be the worst decision in the history of law, in effect an end to law, by setting a precedent for rule by opinion that could equally apply to a fetus’ right to life, a woman’s right to abortion, the right to practice religion, the right to block religions for promoting some unjust practices, everything and its’ opposite being decided by what a majority of nine people think is fair. That is not a good idea.
Providing that different sorts of partnerships are allowed the same social benefits as marriage for bureaucratic purposes it is hard to see the justification for insisting that it be recognized as being the same in any metaphysical way. It is a vain search for approbation that will never occur. It is not akin to a black man demanding the same rights as a white man, it is akin to a black man seeking to be declared white, and one has to question whether creating such a legal fiction serves a purpose and whether turning one class of people into a parody of another class of people entrenches rather than eliminates a connotation of inferiority. If you are proud of what you are, why do you want to be a parody of something else? It just looks like a desparate grasp for approval.
It also piggybacks on the modern anachronistic approach to marriage.
Notoriously, in biblical times, including at the time of the Commandments, the "taking unto wife", i.e. the physical act, confirmed the marriage back before bureaucratic registries and religions with their hands out for fees confused everything.
Strictly speaking the old New Jersey law whereby people were married on having sex was the most accurate in describing what constitutes a marriage. Getting married in the same sense that is protected by the Commandments and not registering it is not an affront to God, it is an affront to the people that want your money and who want to further legislate about your behaviour in terms of asset division and other things.
So strictly speaking, the religious concern should not be about pre-marital sex, which is a non-sequitor, it should be about promiscuity, which amounts to adultery per se.
The registration of marriage leads to certain baskets of rights, which can be provided without necessarily referring directly to marriage.
The marriage itself in a correct historical sense comes though from the act, which is something that can be legislatively ignored but which can’t be legislatively taken away from the view of moral implication.
Whether any God would consider a homosexual act on the same footing is frankly beyond the jurisdiction of even a constitutional amendment. If there could be any true same sex marriage as opposed to regulatory construct it would be on that basis.
But what this issue comes down to is not equal treatment, which can be legislated without use of specific words, but the desire to be thought well of, and whether you want to be thought of as equals, which can’t be legislated.
Changing definitions rather than rights to appease people should generally be avoided. It stirs things up without purpose and is likely to achieve the opposite of any public relations objective. It may also sideline real progress by obfuscating and conflating what matters and what doesn’t and creating the appearance of a victory when nothing has happened.
If we throw things wide open it degrades everybody. Some person in Germany recently apparently had a ceremony to marry his cat. Well if marriage means whatever you want it to mean and is only about your personal truth, why not? I would rather not know if that was consumated.
And then there are transexuals, who believe that they are the wrong sex. Even after their surgeries, every cell in their entire body will still be genetically the sex that they are born with, regardless of surgery, changes to driver’s licences, in some cases the absurd changing of birth certificates to the wrong sex- which may be a pain to genealogists and the like in the future. And as long as we go along with these fantasies, why limit it to the sex you are born with? How do you know that you aren’t really a female dolphin or aardvark or panda born in a man’s body? Should the state fund species reassignment?
The situation reminds me somewhat of how I used to joke that I should join the university’s Chinese Christian Association, as it would be discrimination for them to exclude me. While I meant that in jest, some people do things like that, say openly gay people that feign shock when Catholic institutions don’t want to hire them.
I frankly think that a Catholic’s right to be Catholic is more important than the right of a non-Catholic to be Catholic and have every litigant and every judge turned into a pope by the legal system, entitled to rewrite dogma, is quite undesireable. Why isn’t it enough to get on with your lives? Why does every single person have to accept you? The pursuit of universal acceptance rather than equal rights gives the gay rights movement the elements of the wrong sort of religious crusade.
The quantity of various rights crusades has also detracted from the quality and focus. The key focus for the 99% of people who are not rich should be the equitable distribution of the products of our labor. Productivity has gone up what, 16x or more in the past 100 years? Are we 16x better? Why not? Why has the America in which one white collar worker could afford a home with picket fence and retire at a normal age 50 years ago been replaced by an America in which two white collar incomes are about enough to just get by with a decent rental condo, when productivity has increased astronomically in the intervening period? The women’s rights movement has succeeded in getting an ever more equal slice of an ever shrinking pie. The gay rights movement’s reward for distracting the left will be at best getting wonderful certificates printed off of bureaucratic printers, which will change nothing of substance, while they edge ever closer to slavery with everybody else.
I am sure that the right wing is quite pleased with the left’s loss of focus and fracturing into thousands of one issue factions with tunnel vision. The left spends enormous energy on symbolic victories and poetry and metaphors and other delusions and what really matters is lost.